Before We Meet…
Establishing boundaries is a delicate process, but a necessity for any sustainable relationship. I do my best to honor the boundaries of those around me and expect the same in return. To ensure we are a good fit, I have shared my list of non-negotiables here.
Scheduling
I no longer offer same day visits unless otherwise noted on my advertisements or social media. Please allow 24-48 hours of planning to secure our time together.
You are most likely to find me on Mondays and Wednesdays between the hours of 10am and 6pm. Please inquire further if you’d like to meet outside of those times. Evening dates require at least one week’s notice, a two hour minimum, and 50% deposit.
Screening
For my comfort and safety, I require screening for all new friends. Please be prepared to share your legal name, phone number, and photo identification with me. For extra credit, you may also share your LinkedIn or other social media presence (totally optional, but it does make me feel more at ease to get a idea of who I’m meeting)!
I understand it can be daunting to share this personal information with a stranger. Let me assure you that your privacy will be respected and this is merely a safety precaution. I do however, offer a few options for alternative screening:
Option 1: An established TNA account in good standing
Option 2: a verifiable reference from your most recent provider
Option 3: a social date in a public setting at my full rate
Disclaimer: I reserve the right to request additional screening information or decline a booking request as I see fit. My comfort and safety come first, always.
Etiquette
First impressions can make quite the impact. While some of these notes may seem obvious, I prefer to make my expectations abundantly clear. Your consideration is most appreciated. ❤️
Please arrive to our date freshly showered or be prepared to shower upon arrival. Good hygiene is vital in ensuring that I will enjoy the time spent with you.
Your contribution may be placed in an unsealed envelope and presented upon arrival. If we are meeting in public, an envelope concealed in a gift bag is preferred.
Please refrain from excessive PDA with me in public. I am okay with hand holding and quick kisses, anything more than that will likely make me and the others around us uncomfortable! Please also be mindful of our conversation topics and volume in public.
If you wish to bring a beverage or snack for us to share, please ensure that it is packaged in an unbroken seal.
Please refrain from arriving to our date intoxicated or using drugs during our time together.
If you see me in public outside of our scheduled time together, feel free to smile and nod in my direction but please do not approach me, especially if I am with company. I’m a very private person and it can be jarring to be approached when I’m not expecting it!
Please let me know if you plan to use me as a reference to see another provider and who I can expect to be contacted by. I promise I won’t get jealous! This is to ensure that I do not confirm our relationship to anyone without your explicit consent.
Deposits and Fees
A deposit will be requested for evening dates, touring dates, or special requests. I can not return your deposit in the event of cancellation, so please only send one if you are committed!
