Before We Meet…
Establishing boundaries is a delicate process, but a necessity for any sustainable relationship. I do my best to honor the boundaries of those around me and expect the same in return. To ensure we are a good fit, I have shared my list of non-negotiables here.
Screening
For my comfort and safety, I require screening for all new friends. Please be prepared to share your legal name, phone number, and photo identification with me. For extra credit, you may also share your LinkedIn or other social media presence (totally optional, but it does make me feel more at ease to get a idea of who I’m meeting)!
I understand it can be daunting to share this personal information with a stranger. Let me assure you that your privacy will be respected and this is merely a safety precaution. I do however, offer a few options for alternative screening:
Option 1: An established TNA account in good standing
Option 2: a verifiable reference from your most recent provider
Option 3: a social date in a public setting at my full rate
Disclaimer: I reserve the right to request additional screening information or decline a booking request as I see fit. My comfort and safety come first, always.
Etiquette
First impressions can make quite the impact. While some of these notes may seem obvious, I prefer to make my expectations abundantly clear. Your consideration is most appreciated. ❤️
Please arrive to our date freshly showered or be prepared to shower upon arrival. I have all the necessary hygiene amenities at my incall and I always carry mints or mouthwash on me, don’t be shy about asking for some if you need it! Good hygiene is vital in ensuring that I will enjoy the time spent with you.
When visiting my incall, please text me when you arrive and wait in your vehicle (or on a nearby block if on foot) until I tell you I am ready to let you inside. Please do not approach the building before I tell you to do so and please do not loiter around the building.
Your contribution may be placed in an envelope and left on my counter upon arrival. If we are meeting in public, an envelope concealed in a gift bag is preferred.
Please be discreet when entering and exiting my incall. My neighbors know very little about my personal life and I prefer to keep it that way.
Please refrain from excessive PDA with me in public. I am okay with hand holding and quick kisses, anything more than that will likely make me and the others around us uncomfortable! Please also be mindful of our conversation topics and volume in public.
If you wish to bring a beverage or snack for us to share, please ensure that it is packaged in an unbroken seal.
Please refrain from arriving to our date intoxicated or using drugs during our time together.
If you see me in public outside of our scheduled time together, feel free to smile and nod in my direction but please do not approach me, especially if I am with company. I’m a very private person and it can be jarring to be approached when I’m not expecting it!
Please let me know if you plan to use me as a reference to see another provider and who I can expect to be contacted by. I promise I won’t get jealous! This is to ensure that I do not confirm our relationship to anyone without your explicit consent.
Scheduling
I am typically available by appointment only. Occasionally, I will post about last minute availability or special date opportunities on my social media. Feel free to give me a follow for the most up to date information!
Planning ahead is key to spending time with me. I am eager to make time in my schedule for you! Keep in mind, though, that I am also balancing education, extracurriculars, and other life responsibilities. Scheduling our time together in advance will ensure that I am at my best for you, and give us both something to look forward to! You are welcome to ask about same day availability, though I will warn you that it is rare for me.
If you have to cancel or reschedule, please try to do so before the day of our scheduled date. Same day cancellations usually means I will not consider seeing you in the future, unless there is an extenuating circumstance or special arrangements are made.
Dates
I look forward to hosting our time together at my private incall space, conveniently located off I-405 in the Alphabet District. If you prefer to host, kindly ensure that our venue is rated at least three stars or more. I do not accept date requests to private residences, sorry!
Extended dates should be treated as an organic relationship. Please remember that while I am all about giving you the best experience possible, I am also a real person with real feelings and needs. If you wish to spend time with me for longer than a couple hours, expect for a portion of that time to be spent outside of the bedroom. Dates longer than two hours should include a social activity and dates longer than four hours should include a meal. Overnight dates will require a rest period and multi day dates require breaks for personal time.
Deposits and Fees
A deposit may be requested for touring dates, extended dates, or special requests. I can not return your deposit in the event of cancellation, so please only send one if you are committed!
Esme Marie 